The Perfect Ring Guide
By Mr. Yes
For the Modern Gentleman Who Wants to Get It Right
Why the Ring Matters as Much as the “Yes”
Gentlemen, let’s speak honestly.
You’re about to ask the most important question of your life.
And while the moment itself is priceless, there is one detail she’ll look at every single day from now until forever: the ring.
The ring isn’t just jewelry.
It’s a symbol, a promise, a reflection of your story together - and something her friends, family, and Instagram followers will definitely admire.
Choosing the perfect ring should feel exciting, not intimidating.
That’s why The Perfect Yes created this guide - to support the modern gentleman with clarity, ease, and confidence.
You’re not supposed to know everything about diamonds.
You’re supposed to choose the one that feels right for her.
And we’re here to help you understand what that looks like.
Your Exclusive Ring Guide
Step One
Start Strong - Know the Basics
Without Feeling Overwhelmed
Let’s break down the essentials in a way that feels empowering, never complicated.
These four characteristics determine a diamond’s beauty and value:
The 4Cs - Explained Simply & Elegantly:
Cut
The sparkle
The most important C.
A great cut makes the diamond dance with light.
A poor cut makes even large
diamonds look dull.
Mr. Yes Tip:
If you want the safest option, choose Excellent or Ideal. She’ll notice the sparkle instantly.
Colour
How white the diamond looks
Diamonds have slight warmth or coolness.
Grades go from D (icy white) to Z (visible yellow).
Luxury Insight:
Most Swiss clients prefer the elegant balance of F–H - white, luxurious, and natural.
Refers to natural inclusions inside the stone.
For a luxury, eye-clean stone:
Choose VS1, VS2, or SI1 (high quality).
Clarity
How clean the diamond looks
More carat doesn’t always mean better.
A smaller, beautifully cut diamond can outshine a larger one.
Common Mistake:
Chasing carat size but forgetting cut.
Always choose quality first
- she will see the difference.
Carat
Size
Step Two
Choose the Diamond Shape - The Style That Speaks Her Language
Each shape tells a story.
Here are the most desired and meaningful diamond shapes in Switzerland and Europe.
Mr. Yes Tip: How to Choose the Perfect Ring for Her
Finding the perfect engagement ring for her starts with understanding her personal style.
For the woman who cherishes elegance, femininity, and timeless sophistication, a classic oval engagement ring or round cut ring radiates grace and enduring beauty. If her style is minimalist, modern, and refined, sleek emerald cut rings and radiant cut engagement rings offer a contemporary yet understated allure.
For those drawn to romantic, vintage-inspired jewelry, the soft, enchanting curves of a cushion cut ring evoke timeless charm.
And for a woman with a bold, artistic, and expressive personality, striking pear cut rings or princess cut engagement rings make a confident statement that celebrates individuality.
Pro Tip: Pay attention to the jewelry she wears every day. Her personal style is already shining through, and it’s your key to choosing a ring she’ll treasure forever.
Step Three
Choosing the Metal - Where Luxury Meets Personality
Platinum
Premium, durable, naturally white.
Swiss favorite for luxury engagement rings.
White Gold
Similar look to platinum, more affordable.
Needs occasional re-plating.
Yellow Gold
Warm, classic, timeless luxury.
Rose Gold
Romantic, modern, and soft.
A beautiful choice for warm skin tones.
Mr. Yes Tip: Quick Check – What Does She Already Wear?
Choosing the perfect engagement ring for her starts with observing her everyday jewelry.
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Mostly silver or white metals → Opt for platinum or white gold rings for a sleek, timeless look.
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Mostly warm, golden tones → Yellow gold rings complement her style beautifully.
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A mix of metals → Let her personality and the ring setting guide your choice.
Luxury Insight: Swiss craftsmanship is known for clean, minimal, and highly precise settings, particularly in platinum and yellow gold, making these options perfect for a sophisticated, long-lasting engagement ring.
Step Four
Choose the Setting - The Frame That Completes the Artwork
Mr. Yes Tip: Choose a Ring Setting That Complements Her Lifestyle
When selecting the perfect engagement ring for her, consider her daily activities.
Active women often prefer bezel settings or low-profile engagement rings, which offer durability, practicality, and a sleek, stylish look without compromising elegance.
Step Five
How to Secretly Find Her Ring Size
Relax - there are elegant ways
Mr. Yes Tip: Reassurance About Ring Sizing
Worried about getting the perfect fit? Don’t be.
Engagement rings can almost always be resized, making it a very common and straightforward process.
Choosing the right ring is about style and sentiment-size can usually be adjusted later, giving you peace of mind when selecting the perfect ring for her.
Step Six
Understanding Natural vs Lab-Grown Diamonds
Without Judgment
Natural Diamonds
Formed over billions of years
Traditional luxury
Higher long-term value
Lab-Grown Diamonds
Real diamonds created in a controlled environment
More affordable
High visual quality
Mr. Yes Tip: The Timeless Appeal of Natural Diamonds
In Switzerland, natural diamonds continue to hold strong emotional and cultural significance, especially when it comes to engagements and proposals.
Their enduring prestige makes them a meaningful choice for a lifelong commitment.
That said, lab-grown diamonds are also a beautiful and ethical alternative, offering brilliance and elegance while providing more options for modern couples.
Both types of diamonds make stunning choices for the perfect engagement ring for her.
Step Seven
How to Discover Her Style
Without Asking Directly
Observe Her Daily Jewellery
Her everyday pieces reveal whether her engagement ring style is minimal, glamorous, vintage, or modern.
Check Her Fashion Style
Classic, chic, romantic, edgy, boho, or minimalist clothing usually reflects the type of engagement ring she’ll love.
Look at Her Pinterest Boards
Most women save “engagement ring” inspiration - a goldmine for understanding her preferred shapes, metals, and settings.
Notice Her Nails
Simple nails often pair with classic rings, while bold nails suggest a preference for eye-catching, expressive designs.
Use Subtle Conversation
A casual question like “Would you prefer something simple or something sparkly?” gives clear insight without revealing your plan.
Mr. Yes Tip: Discover Her Perfect Ring Style
Pay attention to her everyday jewelry, fashion, nails, and even Pinterest boards-these small clues reveal whether she prefers minimal, vintage, glamorous, or modern engagement rings.
A casual conversation about style can give extra insight without giving away your plan.
Step Eight
Budget - The Modern Gentleman’s Approach
Forget the old “three months salary” rule.
Mr. Yes Tip:
A beautifully cut 1.2-1.5 carat stone often looks better than a poorly cut 2 carat.
What Actually Matters:
What feels right for you
What suits her style
Quality over size
A balanced, confident investment
Where your money matters most:
Cut quality
Carat size
Color
Clarity
Step Nine
Timeline - When to Start Shopping
Without Asking Directly
Standard timeline:
4–8 weeks
Custom designs:
6–12 weeks
Matching with the proposal date:
If you have a proposal date set, purchase at least one month earlier.
Common Mistake:
Buying too late and compromising on choice.
Step Ten
Match the Ring to Your Proposal Vision
Choosing a ring is deeply connected to the moment.
Mountain-top proposals
Sleek, elegant shapes (oval, emerald)
Rooftop or city-view proposals
Modern shapes (radiant, emerald)
Candlelight & Spa moments
Romantic shapes (cushion, round)
Lakeside or nature proposals
Soft, feminine shapes (pear, oval)
Mr. Yes Tip: Create a Ring Moment She’ll Never Forget
Choosing the perfect engagement ring for her is about more than style - it’s about the story.
A thoughtful, cohesive proposal becomes a cherished memory she’ll retell forever, making your ring not just a gift, but a moment of a lifetime.
Step Eleven
Avoid These Gentlemen’s Mistakes
Beautifully and Calmly
Avoid common mistakes like overthinking, asking too many friends for opinions, following trends instead of her true style, ignoring her lifestyle, worrying excessively about ring size, or waiting until the last minute.
The proposal journey should feel intentional, calm, and meaningful.
Remember: perfection comes from thoughtful intention, never pressure.
Bonus
The Unseen Advantages
01
Confidence
Understanding the basics
gives you incredible clarity.
02
Storytelling
You’ll be able to share the meaning behind the choice.
03
Emotional Impact
A ring chosen with care becomes part of your legacy as a couple.
Disclaimer
A World of Infinite Possibilities
There are countless engagement-ring shapes, settings, metal types, and bespoke combinations available. The options presented here showcase the most desired styles, yet the world of fine jewelry offers far more possibilities. Every ring can be refined, customized, or re-imagined to reflect individual taste and timeless elegance.
Gentlemen, choosing an engagement ring is not about being an expert.
It’s about choosing a symbol of your love - thoughtfully, confidently, and with intention.
Let this guide support you in creating a moment she’ll remember forever
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